I believe all of us mommies, faced this problem. Me myself started to gain some sort of discomfort, regret-fullness, angry-a-bit since 2 years back when a good friend of mine mentioned about this to me. I had sets of discussion with the husband but it only led us to a dead end. We were clueless and frustrated with the information we conceived through the wide web and colleagues. Regrettably, tho I met the pediatrician a couple of times a year, I never asked her pertaining this matter. Yours truly was so afraid that she might be hearing stuff that will bring her night mares for the whole of her life!
Anyway, many many thanks to Dr. Harlina, wifey of Malaysia's first astronaut for taking this matter pretty seriously and get her good friend pediatrician to jolt in great advice (that later be put in her blog). It's quite long but I've highlighted the important notes. So mommies please read, digest them and be happy. InsyaAllah..